Love and life

Mental Feng shui

2008-01-12T14:07:00.001+08:00

This is true, even if you are not superstitious, agnostic, or otherwise faith impaired.

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and
great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose,
don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone ..

Difference between girls & grown women

2007-07-20T19:55:00.000+08:00

Ladies & Gents...read on : )

>Girls leave their schedule wide-open
and wait for a guy to call and make
plans.

>Grown women make their own plans and
nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits

>Girls want to control the man in their
life.
>Grown women know that if he's truly
hers, he doesn't need controlling.

>Girls check you for not calling them.
>Grown women are too busy to realize
you hadn't.

>Girls are afraid to be alone.
>Grown women revel in it-using it as a
time for personal growth.

>Girls ignore the good guys.
>Grown women ignore the bad guys.

>Girls make you come home.
>Grown women make you want to come
>home.

>Girls worry about not being pretty
and/or good enough for their man.
>Grown women know that they are pretty
and/or good enough for any man.

>Girls try to monopolize all their
man's time ( I.e., don't want him
hanging with his friends).
>Grown women realize that a lil' bit of
space makes the 'together time' even
more special-and goes to kick it with
her own friends!

>Girls think a guy crying is weak.
>Grown women offer their shoulder and a
tissue.

>Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell'
their man so.
>Grown women 'show' him and make him
comfortable enough to reciprocate
without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

>Girls get hurt by one man and make all
men pay for it.
>Grown women know that that was just
one man.

>Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly
after the object of their affection,
ignoring all 'signs'.
>Grown women know that sometimes the
one you love, don't always love you
back-and move on, without bitterness.

>Girls will read this and get an
attitude.
>Grown women will read this and pass it
on to other Grown women and their male
friends.

Tips for getting along with others easily- Compatibility tips.

2007-06-27T00:06:00.000+08:00

Aries (March 21-April 19)
Slow down. Stop being so impatient with others. Ask for help when you need it. And don't hesitate to take the first step in mending a broken heart. Your tendency to procrastinate may let down who are depending on you.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Offer fewer explanations or excuses. Others know that you are a person of integrity and accept you for who you are. Stop being so hard on yourself. Start acting with your head and not your heart.

Gemini (May 21 - June 21)
Be more attentive to the needs of that person closest to you. You don't always have to be so blunt and so "honest" in your observations. Be aware that others value your opinion and respect you. Choose your words carefully.

Cancer (June 22 - July 22)
You have the tendency to smother someone who is dear to you. Back off a little and you will discover that they will be drawn closer to you. As you tend to wear your heart on your sleeve, others are attracted to your honesty and forthrightness, but remember that not all people react the same to your unique personality.

Leo (July 23 - Aug 22)
Although you are anxious to please, and you are known for your generosity, you do have a tendency not to hear what people are saying. Thus, some believe you are only interested in fulfilling your own needs. Once you begin to pay attention to the signals that others are sending you, you will find personal relations improving dramatically.

Virgo (Aug 23 - Sept 22)
Don't discount the wisdom of others as you tend to think your opinion is the only one that counts. And spend more time planning, developing strategies. It will help you in your personal relations. It appears you often do things on the fly, sometimes regretting your actions soon afterward, and then spending twice the time undoing the mess you've created.

Libra (Sept 23 - Oct 22)
Value friendship, peace, and reflect on your accomplishments. Once you stop being so hard on yourself, you will be more at ease with others and not focus so heavily on their flaws, mistakes, etc. You are incredibly loyal and expect the same from others, but you should relax your standards a bit, as you are often disappointed.

Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21)
You should be more open to democratic decision-making as you tend to value your opinion infinitely more than those close to you. Although you have very loyal admirers, they do shy away from you at times for fear of being overpowered. You intrigue people because you are at times shy and introverted, but when you come out of your shell you seem capable of running the world.

Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21)
You are gregarious, fun loving, willing to put yourself out for a friend, but you have been disappointed at times by a lack of reciprocation from those close to you. You have a large heart, a generous spirit and adventurous soul, but for everything you have accomplished, you feel you have basically gone it alone. Some people say you are paranoid, but you just see life as it truly is.

Capricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 19)
Giving, loyal, ambitious and picky. When you make a friend, it is for a lifetime, but sometimes you can be too demanding, too incessant, too stubborn. You want to do it your way or not at all. Others seem drawn to you, admire your integrity, experience and potential. But you seem to drawn back when close to real success, almost as if you are too happy with the your present status.

Aquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 18)
While usually looking at the broader picture, you are prone to overlook the obvious. Take a closer, more definitive look at your important relationships and you may discover you have better friendships than you think. If you are a normal Aquarius, you have underestimated the depth and loyalties of those closest to you.

Pisces (Feb 19 - March 20)
An enigma to many, you often are unsure of what you want in a relationship. You tend to be very flexible and have little tolerance for those who are rigid and are unwilling to hear "the truth." You attract a wide variety of friends while managing to keep everyone happy. But you seem particularly drawn to those who have a slight "edge" to them.

Love

2007-06-26T23:01:00.001+08:00

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia:

Love is a constellation of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness.^[1] The meaning of love varies relative to context. Romantic love is seen as an ineffable feeling of intense attraction shared in passionate or intimate attraction and intimate interpersonal and sexual relationships.^[2] Love can also be construed as Platonic love,^[3] religious love,^[4] familial love, and, more casually, great affection for anything considered strongly pleasurable, desirable, or preferred, to include activities and foods.^[5]^[2] This diverse range of meanings in the singular word love is often contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for love, reflecting the concept's depth, versatility, and complexity.

Definations

The definition of love is the subject of considerable debate, enduring speculation and thoughtful introspection. The difficulty of finding a universal definition for love is typically tackled by classifying it into types, such as passionate love, romantic love, and committed love. These types of love can often be generalized into a level of sexual attraction. In common use, love has two primary meanings, the first being an indication of adoration for another person or thing, and the second being a state of relational status. Love is an act of identifying with a person or thing, capable of even including oneself (cf. narcissism). Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness.^[1] In colloquial use, according to polled opinion, the most favored definitions of love involve altruism, selflessness, friendship, union, family, and bonding or connecting with another.^[6]

Thomas Jay Oord has defined love in various scholarly publications as acting intentionally, in sympathetic response to others (including God), to promote overall well-being. Oord means for his definition to be sufficient for research in ethics, religion, and science.

The different aspects of love can be roughly illustrated by comparing their corollaries and opposites. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more mutual and "pure" form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, although other connotations of love may be applied to close friendships as well.

The very existence of love is sometimes subject to debate. Some categorically reject the notion as false or meaningless.^{[citation needed]} Others call it a recently-invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages.^{[citation needed]} Others maintain that love really exists, and is not an abstraction, but is undefinable, being essentially spiritual or metaphysical in nature.^{[citation needed]} Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self-esteem" to another.^{[citation needed]} Others attempt to define love by applying the definition to everyday life.^{[citation needed]}

Cultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish. Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etc. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. Love is essentially an abstract concept,^{[citation needed]} easier to experience than to explain. Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All you need is love".

What is "Love" and "Live"

2007-06-26T22:03:00.000+08:00

Life is full of love and everybody got their own defination toward love. But foresure, no matter how and what is love's defination for us, we need it in our life. Love give us strenght, happiness, hope and many more. Open your heart for others.

... There are so many defination for love and life.. but.. i choose one that i think the best answer

Love is Your Passion or Desire to do something or everything for someone without any expectation or without anything in return. Love is selfless....It doesn't expect anything in return.

Life is a Journey, where you sometimes have ups and downs, narrow roads, and sometimes it seems like forever....but in reality its way shorter than you think.